Men's Health Class: Analyzing Male Sexual Psychological Habits and Differences in Sexual Behavior

Male Sexual Psychological Habits

Men and women differ, and their sexual psychological habits also differ significantly. According to research and analysis, the main sexual psychological habits of young men in my country are as follows:

1. A penchant for lewd talk. When several young men gather, especially acquaintances, lewd talk often occurs. This cannot be simply viewed as vulgar or obscene; it is a common male sexual psychological response. The reasons are mainly threefold: to pass the time and relax from the tension of daily life; to enhance the harmonious and congenial atmosphere of casual conversation; and, when women are nearby, some deliberately use lewd language to observe their reactions. Among those who engage in lewd talk, people of different ages and experiences have different motivations. Older, more experienced men often use lewd talk to boast about their extensive knowledge, relishing topics that should be kept secret—a mentality that women find perplexing. Younger, less experienced people often engage in lewd talk out of a strange vanity, unwilling to be seen as inexperienced or naive, thus acting clever and talking at length. Additionally, some people are in a state of sexual frustration; their lewd talk serves to relieve tension and release sexual desire.

2. A liking for touching women. Male psychological characteristics determine a male's sexual psychological characteristic of liking to touch women; men are born with a strong "desire to touch the opposite sex." This aligns with a principle in zoology: "Sexual behavior is only possible when the male takes the initiative." In romantic relationships, men especially desire to touch women because they want to concretely express intimacy and seek confirmation of that intimacy. Furthermore, due to physiological and psychological factors, they want to progress from the first step to the second and third steps. As a woman in Chekhov's *The Cherry Orchard* says, "If you're allowed to kiss a hand, you'll definitely want to kiss the arm next, and the shoulder."

3. Enjoying looking at women's naked bodies. Men are easily aroused by nude photos and striptease. This is because women are "tactile," while men are "visual." The strength of a man's sexual desire to look at women's naked bodies is determined by the inherent eroticism of the individual and the ease of approaching the object. That is to say, the more a woman's body parts are covered, the more stimulating it is to a man's psychology. This is because the imagination is stimulated, making him think about the next step, and at the same time, making him imagine himself personally uncovering that final part, thus intensifying the feeling. Therefore, compared to frivolous women, shy women are more stimulating to men. In fact, not only men have a psychological attraction to looking at women's naked bodies, but women also have a latent psychological attraction to looking at men's naked bodies, just not as strong as men's. Active.

4. Enjoying looking at women. There's a phenomenon in life where two groups of men and women walk in opposite directions on the street, exchanging glances as they pass each other. The woman's glance is directed at someone of the same sex, while the man's is directed at someone of the opposite sex. The woman's glance reflects an unconscious sense of confrontation, competition, and comparison; the man's glance is an unintentional act of "multiple gazes." Another phenomenon exists where a man, after a sweet goodbye to his girlfriend, will genuinely admire another beautiful woman he sees. This psychological phenomenon in men is like a butterfly flitting from flower to flower; even if he loves one, he can't help but look at another. Women shouldn't be too bothered by this, as men are inherently "extraspective" in everything.

5. They like to hear about a woman's past. Men in the dating stage will either directly or casually inquire about a woman's past. Why is this? Because men have a strong possessive streak. Men have a psychological tendency: when they fall in love with a woman and want to marry her, they desire to possess her exclusively from the present to the future, and also to possess her past exclusively. Women, once in love, focus on their partner's present and future, paying less attention to the past. Men, however, subconsciously feel they should know everything about their future partner.

From a purely physiological perspective, women's libido should be stronger than men's. This is because women do not have a refractory period after intercourse, allowing for multiple sexual encounters; they have more erogenous zones than men; and women are more flexible and have greater stamina, enabling a wider variety of sexual activities. Historically, there have been periods when women held the initiative in sexual activity. Historians have summarized the sexual practices of 18 primitive cultures; in five of these cultures, the woman had to initiate sexual contact; in eight, both partners could initiate, but the man could not refuse the woman's advances. As history progressed and humanity moved away from matriarchal societies, women's power was constrained, including their right to sexual initiative. Women's advantages in sexual behavior were suppressed or even forbidden. As a result, for millions of years, people (including women) not only generally accepted that men have stronger libido than women, but also, due to long-term psychological indoctrination and influence, women have genuinely developed low libido, while strong libido has become the exclusive privilege and pride of men. In reality, men and women have essentially the same sexual response cycle, sometimes even slightly stronger in women. Therefore, in sexual intercourse, women are fully capable of engaging in sexual activities in accordance with men, and there is no inherent passivity or negativity. From the perspective of sexual behavior and psychology, there is no inherent question of who is necessarily the active partner during sexual intercourse. The experience of orgasm in both men and women is identical in quality and quantity. Regardless of who is active or passive, as long as both partners achieve orgasm, the psychological and physiological effects will inevitably be equal and identical.